Monday, August 11, 2014

Guess where I am??

As I type this I am sitting in Washington D.C. waiting for a flight that will take me to Ethiopia.

If you are reading this, then I am in Uganda! 

If you are shocked and wondering why you didn't know - its because no one really did - I am surprising all my sweet friends there. 

God has taken me on one big adventure this year, and I am thankful He has once again led me to a place He has also called me to love and serve. 

I would love for you to pray for me. Pray that God would work through me this week and accomplish big things. Pray that His name would be made great through me. Pray that I am able to make this week not about me, but about Him! 

......Pictures to come of a bunch of epic reunions. 

Thank you for loving me, supporting me and being amazing prayer warriors alongside me.  

xoxo, 

Jordan 

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

{Use Protection}

In Uganda, the leading cause of death is HIV-AIDS killing 64,000 per year. The twelfth leading cause of death in Uganda is boda-boda wrecks, killing around 8,000 per year.

A boda-boda is a small dirt-bike that serves as public transportation. Around 300,000 of them
crowd the streets of Uganda, moving its people from place to place. There are not many traffic rules there (I am tempted to say there are no rules), which results in a pretty terrifying ride. I remember the first time I drove through town on a boda-boda. I thought I was going to die. Sadly, that feeling never went away as I become more accustomed to the culture - I quite often thought I saw my life flash before me as my driver whipped in and out through traffic.

Thankfully, I only fell off of a boda-boda once. It happened to be in the village on a dirt path, so it didn't hurt so bad... but sadly, not all stories end that simply.

With the knowledge of its danger (and both the fear that comes with the ride), you would suspect to see people taking caution. Doesn't it just make sense? That is not the case. In fact, it is shocking each time you see someone wearing a helmet.

Months went by in Uganda where it never even crossed my mind to wear a helmet. To you, that seems extremely stupid. To you, you can't imagine boarding for a ride without one on (and maybe knee pads and a bubble-wrapped body also). Because it wasn't a social norm, I never even thought about it.

This was until one day it hit me - "I should definitely buy a helmet." I assumed that they would be hard to find seeing that no one wore them. I came to find out that isn't the case. Not only are they easy to find, they are also extremely inexpensive. So I bought my helmet and strapped myself in.

I remember riding down the street and seeing people staring. I remember giggles that I am sure accompanied thoughts like, "look at that scared little white girl." I remember the time I stood still in traffic and saw a group of people actually point and laugh. People did not think any more highly of me for wearing a helmet... in fact, if anything they thought less. They saw me as someone set apart from there culture. Someone breaking a social norm - and quite frankly, it was uncomfortable for me.
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While reflecting on my time of helmet wearing - I realized how similar this is to the christian life. As christians, we are called to be set apart from the world (Rom. 12:2) and to put on the armor of God (Eph 6:13). 

Somewhere in the middle of making christianity cool and trendy, we have have failed to use protection God has called us to use. We have tried too hard to be apart of the world in all the wrong ways. We have misused and abused "religious freedom" and have found ourself in a mess (in my opinon). 

If I tell you that one of the leading causes of death in Uganda is boda-boda wrecks, and that I have decided I don't think I should wear a helmet - you are going to call me a foul. You are going to tell me to put on a flippin helmet. 

Similarly, you should use "protection" in your decision making to protect yourself from sin. 

I remember going to college and thinking that I would just go to all the parties but not partake in the things that I thought sinful, while there. I think many christian college freshman think similarly. It doesn't work that way. When you surround yourself by sin, you will fall into sin. Don't go to the parties. 

While fleeing from lust and sexual sin, don't watch inappropriate movies that tempt you and harm your thought process. When striving for abstinence, don't stay that night with your boyfriend assuming you are strong enough to fight temptation. When you know you struggle with drunkenness, don't continue to drink, assuming you will not once again fall into the same sin. The list goes one. 

The sad fact is, that when you do this it might be uncomfortable. People may giggle. They might stop and stare. They may point and laugh. Not only is it worth it, but it is commanded. God tells us to be set apart and to look different (2 Cor. 6:17). In fact - he tells us to look like him (1 John 2:6) - and Jesus himself was mocked (Luke 22:63). Embrace the giggles and point them to Christ. 

Use protection. Guard your heart. Put on your helmet, and protect yourself from sin. Doesn't it just make sense? 

xoxo, 

Jordan

Sunday, June 29, 2014

{Put Some Clothes On}

1 in 4 girls are raped before the age of 18. Every two minutes in the U.S. someone is sexually assaulted. These are alarming statistics. These are sexual sins.

Then there are less "bad" sexual sins like lust. I don't think I need to provide a statistics for the amount of lust in the world. I think you know. Then there is adultery: roughly 40% of all married couples partake in infidelity. These are alarming statistics. These are sexual sins.

But why are we surprised? Scripture warns us that there will be sexual temptation in the world. We know this by the large amount of times we are told to guard ourselves against it:

"Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body." - 1 Cor. 6:18

"Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry "- Col. 3:5

"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. "- Hebrews 13:4

  "For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one     of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the  Gentiles who do not know God;" - 1 Thess. 4:3-5
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Satan has always tried to tempt humanity in this area. His method of choice in this day and age is media.

If you have been watching the world cup lately you know that this is true - commercials are absolutely ridiculous. How exactly do you make a hamburger commercial sexual? Hardee's has found a way. Or when is the last time you have watched a movie without a sex scene (that hopefully you fast forwarded over)? Even cartoons are full of sexual innuendo's.

Whether you like it or not, your son/brother/boyfriend/dad/husband is going to walk past practically naked women every time they step into a mall. Thank you Victoria for that.

The temptation is everywhere. It is on our televisions, saturated in commercials, on many billboards, in our song lyrics, in our malls .......

So why am I telling you this? Honestly, to suggest you should wear more clothes.

Women: Are you going to be happy if you walk into the next room and see your son/brother/boyfriend/dad/husband staring at a picture of a girl in a bikini on his phone?

If those of you who answered no: have you posted a picture of yourself in a bikini on instagram/facebook this summer? Probably. I promise you that there are sisters/mothers/wives/girlfriends who have brothers/fathers/boyfriends/husbands who struggle with sexual sin and you just fed them temptation.

I realize this is harsh and you don't want to think about this.... but have you ever thought about how the way you may dress effects those around you? Do you realize that you are feeding into the temptation of sexual sins (and the statistics listed above)?

I am no way it is your "fault" that people sin sexually: I am however suggesting the way you dress (and the pictures you post) are harming your brothers.

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I challenge you to do three things tonight. 

1. Pray for God to heal the minds of the many men who are creating the statistic that 1 in 4 women are raped. Pray for 40% of couples who are currently living a life of adultery. Pray for the media industry who is playing a key role in sexualizing society. 

2. Think about changes needed in your life that will help protect those around you from temptation. 

3. Stop thinking that watching these disgusting movies, commercials, and such are ok. It isn't. It is exacerbating the problem of the sexualization running rampant in our culture.

I am appalled at how sexualized our society has become. I am angry. I am praying that by God's grace, I in no way feed into this problem and I want to encourage you to do the same. 

xoxo, 

Jordan