Sunday, September 21, 2014

{The Blue Canoe}

Many people have asked about it. I really want to tell you about it. 



Probably my favorite question in the past two months has been, "so you were in front of a green screen in that picture, right?" Actually, no. Weeksville, N.C. is just really that beautiful and Sydney Paris Photography, is really that talented. 

So why a boat? 

Well, like any blogger would do - I read a ton of blogs to answer one of life's most complicated questions: what should my engagement pictures look like? 

I knew that I wanted them to be unique - it was my one requirement that they not look like everyone else's. But, in my blog reading I continued to read something along the lines of, "bring something that is important to you and that describes you." Quickly, my mind went to this canoe. 

Adventure not only describes me, but I hope it describes Louis and I's relationship. I hope that no matter how old we get, we will always be adventurous. Boats are a source of adventure and often a symbol of it.

One of my all time favorite adventures during childhood happened in a canoe. Not any canoe, but the canoe used in our engagement photo-shoot. 

The canoe is my Papa's. He is my biggest fan and one of my favorite people. While my desire for adventure comes from my crazy mom, it also has a great deal to do with my Papa. He took me on a lot of adventures, like the time he taught me and my sister how to jump out of an airplane (well, actually we were jumping on the couch), or the time he transformed me into a chief (well, actually he just taught me to cook for the first time.... pancakes), or the many times I sat on the back of his bicycle for him to drive me to Weeksville Grocery to buy M&M's (it felt like a big deal at the time). But out of them all, my favorite adventures with my Papa were canoeing down Sawmill Creek with him, in his pretty blue canoe. Because he is a tree man, the entire journey down the creek, he pointed at trees, taught me their names and told me every fact their was to know about them. He would tell me old stories about Weeksville and what it used to be. Then, on the journey back to land, he would quiz me on all the trees to see what I actually listened to or what I actually learned. As we got older, we were allowed to canoe without grownups, and it seemed like such a big deal. Then, my sister and I or friends and I would walk that same blue canoe down sawmill road and load it into the creek. 

I eventually got older. So old I had to go to college - and Raleigh was the city of my choice for that phase of life. While I eventually grew to love Raleigh, initially I hated it. Its lack of water made me feel so trapped. The older I have gotten, the less time I have spent on the water - making me realize even more how blessed I was to grow up on the Pasquotank River.... even more so, how thankful I am for time in that blue canoe. 

So, what a joy it was to introduce Louis to one of my favorite childhood memories and favorite adventures. The day after our photo-shoot, we for the first time together loaded the old blue canoe into sawmill creek. It wasn't just any old adventure.... a few minutes in we saw an alligator (that was a first). My dad doesn't believe me that it was an alligator, but I promise you it was. 


Monday, September 15, 2014

"I Think God is Happy With Us!"


The following is an excerpt for A Perfect Injustice's September newsletter. May it encourage us to serve those in need and "make God happy!" 

Each month, API host a mens night and women's night. While the women  staff enjoy fellowship, movies, yummy food and nail painting, the men staff and all our boys do “manly things.” While this includes cooking goats, building fires and playing soccer - it also means time in the word and words of encouragement. While mens night has always been a special time in the month for our boys, the past few months a new “manly thing” has been added to the tradition: community service. Our boys live in a nice home with good food and loving family, but the sad fact is they live in the middle of a impoverished village. A village not only where people are suffering physically or materially, but also in the way that they do not have a relationship with the Lord. Our staff and our boys are faithful to serve these people. While serving the community happens all through the month, each mens night all the boys go together to serve some in their village. This month they went to the home of two widows. These two women live together and attempt to help one another survive, as they have no family around them. They live in a little mud hut with no covered place outside to go to the bathroom or bathe. Our boys and staff decided to fix that. The boys, completely willing and with joy built these women a shelter outside her home to bathe. They also built her a drying rack for her dishes. For the boys with our a job in these project, they patched up her mud hut while some sat and fellowshiped with two widows. In the middle of it all, one of our boys, Matia, looked up with a big smile on his face and said, “I think God is happy with us.”  We agree with Matia. God is happy with them all as they are understanding and partaking in the real kind of “manly things.” They are becoming men of God who are serving Him faithfully and serving their community in a way that is showing and teaching the love and hope of Christ.



Father of the fatherless and protector of widows is God in his holy habitation.
Psalm 68:5

xoxo, 
Jordan